when you lie one day your memory will fail and you might lose someone dear. it is always easier to tell the truth as coming out naturally it never exercises your memory plus is sounds always more beautiful.
how do we identify when someone lies? the voice timbre of the talker changes: it can become lower or higher but it changes the vibration. we notice that on the subconscious level.
we also observe the mimics, the gestures (the body language), the eyes and the lips movements not as the books say it but we all do it intuitively/subconsciously.
that's why we say: the conversations do not happen through the words but on the "energy level". he/she says one thing but we "read" something completely different
the trust can be broken and the relationship get poisoned, the doubt crawls in, we start questioning every word we receive, after one lie the relationship will never be the same.
say the truth the first moment you talk to the person you like or have good intentions [not to "use" him/her as a tool for your hidden agendas to achieve something for your personal gain] but continue the connection on a long term -
or you should not talk at all. we say the word is "silver" but the silence is "gold"
the articles from the past:
on words and silence: http://bohemianrhapsodyclub.weebly.com/relationship-24.html
on love and silence: http://bohemianrhapsodyclub.weebly.com/relationship-22.html
my thoughts on who we are: http://bohemianrhapsodyclub.weebly.com/relationship-27.html
on friendship vs love: http://bohemianrhapsodyclub.weebly.com/relationship-30.html