what men you should distance yourself from and which men are dangerous for relationship
1. men who do not define anything.
relationship especially are not defined. you can stay with him for many years but you are unsure what is going on. man is happy but you are not. you do not know who you are in relationship : a wife, a lover or a friend.
2. men who can not handle the issues.
a man who gives you his own problems and never helps you with your own. he is a kid in man’s body. he will remain a kid forever.
3. men with low responsibility level.
he says: "I am not ready for serious relationship" you are very useful for him but he is not for you.
4. men who do not relate anyhow to what you feel.
you share with him what you feel and what worries you but he closes up or says: "it is not my problem". he simply does not care about woman's feelings. everything you feel turns into zero. such man will never be able to support you emotionally in the future
5. men who do not hear you.
what ever you say to him he does not respond. nothing important touches him. such men never change.
6. men who humiliate you.
did you become happier, more feminine, more confident after you met him or not? if not , if you move, talk, think or do the things in the way he can not accept - just run away from him. he will always put you down and will never accepts your actions.
7. men who can not accept woman's life.
love is exchange of energy. if your man blocks your love, if he refuses to hug, kiss or touch you when you want the closeness,when you want to feel protection, he refuses you and says "men do not love these cuddles and other fluffy things" etc. do not trust his explanation - run away! he does not feel anything towards you
8. men with no aim in life.
he never warns you where he goes and he is constantly busy. the word busy comes up in every sentence . such man invites you to nowhere as he does not have a plan nor he has an aim.
9. married (to some one else) men.
never get close to such men. they are slow action mines. one day you will damage yourself on this mine. according to statistics men divorce their wives for lovers only in 5% of cases. it’s a casino with no winning chance.
10. men who have never got divorced to their mothers.
he will never be forgetting her: he will be in the kitchen, in the bathroom and in the bedroom with his mother. his mother will surround you too everywhere. he loves her more than you. mummy's son is not your man . let him get divorced with his mummy and then he can come back to you. the man who mentions his mum often is a dangerous man. you can alternatively send him to his mum’s tits for milk.
11. greedy men.
he can not buy anything for you but he serves himself very well and generously. he never buys you flowers but he always has lots of cigarettes in his pockets
12. men who owe to everyone : money money money...
he borrows from everyone, he is always in financial troubles. he owes to the bank, to his parents, to all his friends, to his brothers and sisters etc.. he can not serve himself nor he will serve you.. you can not save him always with your investments , you will have some hope but the future will never come.
13. men-manipulators.
he will order you around, he will force you to make decisions that you would not be able to accept. he wants something and by manipulation he will convince you to go his way. such man needs to feel he is a macho man. he will always tell you: “you are so rich and I am so poor, so humble... do you love me for something else?"
14. unappreciated geniuses.
he complains non stop that he is not born in the right town, right time and right country. no one understands him and no one sees how smart he is. he is talking rubbish sitting on the couch . he is a genius and everyone is garbage, you will always be made guilty in such relationship for anything . he might be a genius for you but not for the world that does not hear him as he is always on the couch. stay away from "geniuses".
15. men-moths.
he does not need anything: not money, nor car or house . there is nothing important for him. he might not be interested to be successful in his career or personal development but when he makes you a gift, he will remember this gift for many years... he will be asking you: "do you remember? my present was the best..." he will never appreciate what you did for him. . you can say 100-thank-yous for him but it will never be enough.
16. cunning f"its.
he buys everything in his name even when you are married. ask him straight questions. cunning f*it always takes a woman in his live with fear: he is afraid to be ripped off. he will never share anything with you. there is no trust in relationship. never live in fear for money. it is exhausting. not mature men do this
17. half-way men.
he says: "you pay for this, I pay for that." when you will pregnant or you will stay with kids at home he will neglect you as you will not bring money in the family. you will be his slave forever. it will be the end of relationship too..the result - is your depression. half-way-man warns you at the beginning that this relationship will be a downfall for you. now , before marriage, you still see his "light form", when you marry him - it will be a "heavy form". everything will grow out of proportions .
18. men-bosses.
he thinks that woman's place is in the kitchen. such man is usually possessive. such man locks his woman inside the house, moves with her to another city of country where she does not know anyone and does not have friend. he will not let her out from the house for months with many excuses. beware of a man who locks you inside the cage!
19. Ostap Bender (crook-dealer: real or pretending to be real).
he makes everything to be very important around him . he is very busy, he never has time for you as he is always at the VIP meetings,with big boys and huge bosses, he is always at some events that do not mean anything and that do not end up with anything. ask him what he does in details. there is no result not from any meeting. there is no money, there is nothing. he is either dumb or he is wasting his time. BTW, big boys never meet such men. such men think they are important but they are nothing.
20. men-catastrophe.
he breaks, damages and loses everything every day. he gets into accidents, he is never on time meeting with you. these men are disasters. it will only get worse with marriage.
21. men who forget their own kids.
pay attention how your man relates to his kids. does he care about what they eat and how they sleep? if there is nothing on this subject in his mind do not listen to his excuses.
22. men-narcissists (men-perverts)
let's talk about it separately as it is a long conversation.
looks like I covered all men types...
may be there is just one man left on Earth who is not that, the above!
girls , be smart. grow and listen, observe. observe ... and I say it mainly to myself .
// written with the help and analysis of Mark Barton's several lectures on self-improvement
1. men who do not define anything.
relationship especially are not defined. you can stay with him for many years but you are unsure what is going on. man is happy but you are not. you do not know who you are in relationship : a wife, a lover or a friend.
2. men who can not handle the issues.
a man who gives you his own problems and never helps you with your own. he is a kid in man’s body. he will remain a kid forever.
3. men with low responsibility level.
he says: "I am not ready for serious relationship" you are very useful for him but he is not for you.
4. men who do not relate anyhow to what you feel.
you share with him what you feel and what worries you but he closes up or says: "it is not my problem". he simply does not care about woman's feelings. everything you feel turns into zero. such man will never be able to support you emotionally in the future
5. men who do not hear you.
what ever you say to him he does not respond. nothing important touches him. such men never change.
6. men who humiliate you.
did you become happier, more feminine, more confident after you met him or not? if not , if you move, talk, think or do the things in the way he can not accept - just run away from him. he will always put you down and will never accepts your actions.
7. men who can not accept woman's life.
love is exchange of energy. if your man blocks your love, if he refuses to hug, kiss or touch you when you want the closeness,when you want to feel protection, he refuses you and says "men do not love these cuddles and other fluffy things" etc. do not trust his explanation - run away! he does not feel anything towards you
8. men with no aim in life.
he never warns you where he goes and he is constantly busy. the word busy comes up in every sentence . such man invites you to nowhere as he does not have a plan nor he has an aim.
9. married (to some one else) men.
never get close to such men. they are slow action mines. one day you will damage yourself on this mine. according to statistics men divorce their wives for lovers only in 5% of cases. it’s a casino with no winning chance.
10. men who have never got divorced to their mothers.
he will never be forgetting her: he will be in the kitchen, in the bathroom and in the bedroom with his mother. his mother will surround you too everywhere. he loves her more than you. mummy's son is not your man . let him get divorced with his mummy and then he can come back to you. the man who mentions his mum often is a dangerous man. you can alternatively send him to his mum’s tits for milk.
11. greedy men.
he can not buy anything for you but he serves himself very well and generously. he never buys you flowers but he always has lots of cigarettes in his pockets
12. men who owe to everyone : money money money...
he borrows from everyone, he is always in financial troubles. he owes to the bank, to his parents, to all his friends, to his brothers and sisters etc.. he can not serve himself nor he will serve you.. you can not save him always with your investments , you will have some hope but the future will never come.
13. men-manipulators.
he will order you around, he will force you to make decisions that you would not be able to accept. he wants something and by manipulation he will convince you to go his way. such man needs to feel he is a macho man. he will always tell you: “you are so rich and I am so poor, so humble... do you love me for something else?"
14. unappreciated geniuses.
he complains non stop that he is not born in the right town, right time and right country. no one understands him and no one sees how smart he is. he is talking rubbish sitting on the couch . he is a genius and everyone is garbage, you will always be made guilty in such relationship for anything . he might be a genius for you but not for the world that does not hear him as he is always on the couch. stay away from "geniuses".
15. men-moths.
he does not need anything: not money, nor car or house . there is nothing important for him. he might not be interested to be successful in his career or personal development but when he makes you a gift, he will remember this gift for many years... he will be asking you: "do you remember? my present was the best..." he will never appreciate what you did for him. . you can say 100-thank-yous for him but it will never be enough.
16. cunning f"its.
he buys everything in his name even when you are married. ask him straight questions. cunning f*it always takes a woman in his live with fear: he is afraid to be ripped off. he will never share anything with you. there is no trust in relationship. never live in fear for money. it is exhausting. not mature men do this
17. half-way men.
he says: "you pay for this, I pay for that." when you will pregnant or you will stay with kids at home he will neglect you as you will not bring money in the family. you will be his slave forever. it will be the end of relationship too..the result - is your depression. half-way-man warns you at the beginning that this relationship will be a downfall for you. now , before marriage, you still see his "light form", when you marry him - it will be a "heavy form". everything will grow out of proportions .
18. men-bosses.
he thinks that woman's place is in the kitchen. such man is usually possessive. such man locks his woman inside the house, moves with her to another city of country where she does not know anyone and does not have friend. he will not let her out from the house for months with many excuses. beware of a man who locks you inside the cage!
19. Ostap Bender (crook-dealer: real or pretending to be real).
he makes everything to be very important around him . he is very busy, he never has time for you as he is always at the VIP meetings,with big boys and huge bosses, he is always at some events that do not mean anything and that do not end up with anything. ask him what he does in details. there is no result not from any meeting. there is no money, there is nothing. he is either dumb or he is wasting his time. BTW, big boys never meet such men. such men think they are important but they are nothing.
20. men-catastrophe.
he breaks, damages and loses everything every day. he gets into accidents, he is never on time meeting with you. these men are disasters. it will only get worse with marriage.
21. men who forget their own kids.
pay attention how your man relates to his kids. does he care about what they eat and how they sleep? if there is nothing on this subject in his mind do not listen to his excuses.
22. men-narcissists (men-perverts)
let's talk about it separately as it is a long conversation.
looks like I covered all men types...
may be there is just one man left on Earth who is not that, the above!
girls , be smart. grow and listen, observe. observe ... and I say it mainly to myself .
// written with the help and analysis of Mark Barton's several lectures on self-improvement
