just some observations and food for your mind:
when you lie one day your memory will fail and you might lose someone dear. it is always easier to tell the truth as coming out naturally it never exercises your memory plus is sounds always more beautiful.
how do we identify when someone lies? the voice timbre of the talker changes: it can become lower or higher but it changes the vibration. we notice that on the subconscious level.
we also observe the mimics, the gestures (the body language), the eyes and the lips movements not as the books say it but we all do it intuitively/subconsciously.
that's why we say: the conversations do not happen through the words but on the "energy level". he/she says one thing but we "read" something completely different
the trust can be broken and the relationship get poisoned, the doubt crawls in, we start questioning every word we receive, after one lie the relationship will never be the same.
say the truth the first moment you talk to the person you like or have good intentions [not to "use" him/her as a tool for your hidden agendas to achieve something for your personal gain] but continue the connection on a long term -
or you should not talk at all. we say the word is "silver" but the silence is "gold"
the articles from the past:
on words and silence: http://bohemianrhapsodyclub.weebly.com/relationship-24.html
on love and silence: http://bohemianrhapsodyclub.weebly.com/relationship-22.html
my thoughts on who we are: http://bohemianrhapsodyclub.weebly.com/relationship-27.html
on friendship vs love: http://bohemianrhapsodyclub.weebly.com/relationship-30.html

ABOUT ART, CREATIVITY AND ART PROJECT COLLABORATIONS
Those of us who touched once their "creative reality" will never forget the special feeling they experienced. Call it bliss,call it happiness or call it awakening- the core does not change no matter how we call or label it - it is just there.
It feels like connecting to the highest realm of your soul, of your purest being-ness that contains unlimited source of information. It changes your life vision, your perspective and your relation to the world. It removes envy to the people of the "similar profession" as you know now - you have access to the place where you can pick up and scoop the endless , the unlimited information, inspiration and material for your next project - one after the other - plus you understand that those who create next to you are You in a different form so you make the relationship work no matter what form You take. It is finally materialised - ad this is the main idea. The source attracts you like a huge magnet , it is unbreakable and stable , nothing can shake it. You get indifferent to the events happening outside of you as you know you can always reach that state where there is no worries and no frustration. It brings you perpetual joy, it makes you smile, it makes you feel like dancing...
In this process it is important you are supported by the people of the same vision, who know and understand you and who n connect to your feelings towards the process of art and creation. It brings me same thrill to see the others grow, evolve and establish themselves. I adore the art projects that my friends run. I see they do not have any hidden agendas - it is a process of giving without expecting anything in return - it is a process for the sake of the beautiful journey, to be in the moment , to feel the moment and to share the joy from the result. They are real, their creations are organic, they apportion your pleasure , they never hide what they achieve as they understand the art does not have the owner. It has the author (the medium who passes the information) but it does not have the owner. We might induce the owner, but the ownership is fake. The art as well as the inspiration for it belongs to the highest source, to no one and to all of us. After all there is no art if there is no one to reflect on your design, to see your "opinion" and to share your bliss.
I see people change while they touch the invisible power of creation. It is a miracle with many temptations, but it is sacred after all. As I said at the start the creation is a revolution in your heart if you touched the divine process only once. The feeling will take you back again and again , it is addictive as no matter how hard you resist the soul will be asking you for more and more...
Enjoy the process . I want to publish one of my fav and most inspiring (for me) photos here.
It takes months to create one image that will leave an unforgettable imprint inside your substance.

photography: Rouben Dickranian

I have not done it for a while - 15 months since actually - have not published anything on our "life purpose / self discovery" pages: here we gohttp://bohemianrhapsodyclub.weebly.com/life-purpose.html

ON OWNERSHIP AND LOVE
The other day I taveled a fare distance to the ocean side I had my old friend calling me out of the blue. We had a long conversation on ownership and love... This was the essence of our discussion.
the nature of ownership in the nutshell. You get born. You are raised by your mother, you are owned by your mother, then your parents, kindergarten, then school and its teaches own you, your friends, University, your school-mates, your co-workers and your boss after you start working, your wife or your husband, then your own family: your kids, your mother in law, your new friends etc etc - you march through life and you are never alone - everyone wants a piece of you - the list never ends, the list of owners of You continues on year after year. It shapes you. You live according to their expectations: you behave in the frames of your son, your friend, your brother, your husband: you must be a good employee, a dad , a granddad, a partner etc etc... The thought forms of the others change you according ti how they see you, according to their expectations about You. When do you finally own Yourself and know who you are you might be already very very old, you find your own core, your own world, you understand what you really want from life, not what the others expect of you might be already close to the death bed. But when do you become a real You? Some people never do.
Once a week at least try to spend time with your Self if you can: at least 24 hours: see inside of you and figure out what that child of yours always wanted to be, find out what is missing, re-built yourself not for the sake of the others, not for the expectations and believes of the others around you but in line with the real source that has created You: pure, free and divine... week after week see how you will transform and what will appear new in your life.
Then we started talking about Love too... Here what I found from my old notes and publications on Osho, the ownership and much more that many of you will find remarkable - I hope it will ring the bell...
please read more: http://bohemianrhapsodyclub.weebly.com/life-purpose.html

I have not published any spiritual practices on these pages for a while... so this is a good starting point...
on the way from Tullamarine Michael Marchev asked me to publish one exercise every single day from my favorite book that he currently studies:
A Course In Miracles
I decided to use this website https://acimi.com to copy one single lesson every day for all our readers:
LESSON 1
Nothing I See Means Anything.
Now look slowly around you, and practice applying this idea very specifically to whatever you see.
This table does not mean anything. 
This chair does not mean anything. 
This hand does not mean anything.
This foot does not mean anything. 
This pen does not mean anything.
Then look farther away from your immediate area, and apply the idea to a wider range:
That door does not mean anything. 
That body does not mean anything. 
That lamp does not mean anything. 
That sign does not mean anything. 
That shadow does not mean anything.
Notice that these statements are not arranged in any order, and make no allowance for differences in the kinds of things to which they are applied. That is the purpose of the exercise. The statement should merely be applied to anything you see. As you practice the idea for the day, use it totally indiscriminately. Do not attempt to apply it to everything you see, for these exercises should not become ritualistic. Only be sure that nothing you see is specifically excluded. One thing is like another as far as the application of the idea is concerned.
Each of the first three lessons should not be done more than twice a day each, preferably morning and evening. Nor should they be attempted for more than a minute or so, unless that entails a sense of hurry. A comfortable sense of leisure is essential.

LESSON 2
I Have Given Everything I See All The Meaning That It Has For Me.
The exercises with this idea are the same as those for the first one. Begin with the things that are near you, and apply the idea to whatever your glance rests on. Then increase the range outward. Turn your head so that you include whatever is on either side. If possible, turn around and apply the idea to what was behind you. Remain as indiscriminate as possible in selecting subjects for its application, do not concentrate on anything in particular, and do not attempt to include everything you see in a given area, or you will introduce strain
Merely glance easily and fairly quickly around you, trying to avoid selection by size, brightness, color, material, or relative importance to you. Take the subjects simply as you see them. Try to apply the exercise with equal ease to a body or a button, a fly or a floor, an arm or an apple. The sole criterion for applying the idea to anything is merely that your eyes have lighted on it. Make no attempt to include anything particular, but be sure that nothing is specifically excluded.

LESSON 3
I Do Not Understand Anything I See.
Apply this idea in the same way as the previous ones, without making distinctions of any kind. Whatever you see becomes a proper subject for applying the idea.
Be sure that you do not question the suitability of anything for application of the idea. These are not exercises in judgment. Anything is suitable if you see it. Some of the things you see may have emotionally-charged meaning for you. Try to lay such feelings aside, and merely use these things exactly as you would anything else.
The point of the exercises is to help you clear your mind of all past associations, to see things exactly as they appear to you now, and to realize how little you really understand about them.
It is therefore essential that you keep a perfectly open mind, unhampered by judgment, in selecting the things to which the idea for the day is to be applied. For this purpose one thing is like another; equally suitable and therefore equally useful.

LESSON 4
These Thoughts Do Not Mean Anything.
Unlike the preceding ones, these exercises do not begin with the idea for the day. In these practice periods, begin with noting the thoughts that are crossing your mind for about a minute. Then apply the idea to them. If you are already aware of unhappy thoughts, use them as subjects for the idea. Do not, however, select only the thoughts you think are “bad.” You will find, if you train yourself to look at your thoughts, that they represent such a mixture that, in a sense, none of them can be called “good” or “bad.” This is why they do not mean anything.
In selecting the subjects for the application of today’s idea, the usual specificity is required. Do not be afraid to use “good” thoughts as well as “bad.” None of them represents your real thoughts, which are being covered up by them. The “good” ones are but shadows of what lies beyond, and shadows make sight difficult. The “bad” ones are blocks to sight, and make seeing impossible. You do not want either.
This is a major exercise, and will be repeated from time to time in somewhat different form. The aim here is to train you in the first steps toward the goal of separating the meaningless from the meaningful. It is a first attempt in the long-range purpose of learning to see the meaningless as outside you, and the meaningful within. It is also the beginning of training your mind to recognize what is the same and what is different.
In using your thoughts for application of the idea for today, identify each thought by the central figure or event it contains; for example:
This thought about _______ does not mean anything. 
It is like the things I see in this room [on this street, and so on].
You can also use the idea for a particular thought that you recognize as harmful. This practice is useful, but is not a substitute for the more random procedures to be followed for the exercises. Do not, however, examine your mind for more than a minute or so. You are too inexperienced as yet to avoid a tendency to become pointlessly preoccupied.
Further, since these exercises are the first of their kind, you may find the suspension of judgment in connection with thoughts particularly difficult. Do not repeat these exercises more than three or four times during the day. We will return to them later.

Transitions Film Festival Melbourne and Jameson & Co PR present a new documentary called In Pursuit of Silence - A Documentary Film . The festival starts on Thursday Feb 16 http://www.transitionsfilmfestival.com/
#InPursuitOfSilence is a film about our relationship with silence and the impact of noise pollution on our environment and on our lives.
please read our review on this film published:http://bohemianrhapsodyclub.weebly.com/la-premiere

trailer: 

on our self discovery pages today - video The Face Of The Child Is The Face Of God (in Russian language) - Sergei Strizhak reads chapters from Ошо Бхагаван Шри. "Новый ребёнок. Внутренняя революция":http://bohemianrhapsodyclub.weebly.com/self-discovery.html

veche's right and consumerism: http://bohemianrhapsodyclub.weebly.com/self-discovery.html
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it is not about Love or Hate, what matters is the energy and the attention, Positive or Negative - is still your judgement, which you need to go above of. These emotions are only the sides of the same coin... being non-judgemental means just BEING (the stillness of the soul), but it never means "not being negative". It is the hardest part to learn not to judge as the whole world is based on judgement. The "not judging at all" needs so much practice it is almost impossible to achieve. It is not only about not noticing how the person is dressed, if he/she is tall or chubby, beautiful or ugly, happy or sad etc etc... Ultimately not judging is zen in its best expression. Next time you observe the people passing by try not to think and compare them to what you already know and learnt - rather just BE and see what miracle can happen in front of your eyes.
IS THAT TRUE? A story about the monk and the baby: http://bohemianrhapsodyclub.weebly.com/mind-expansion-and-s

I still have a slight after taste of Borgia in my soul, the series that I really loved and enjoyed watching not only due to their historical value but also because of the powerful story line and some thoughts they placed in many characters' verbal expressions.. so again I would like to talk today about authority and should we ever question it: be it our close ones or the people who manage us on smaller or larger scales, authority usually can not be spoken about without mentioning the value of individuals, single person, group of people (and self-growth, development of races or nations) in the history flow so consider it as philosophical subject of discussion please. http://bohemianrhapsodyclub.weebly.com/mind-expansion-and-spiritual-practices